Showing posts with label Craig Hamilton. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Craig Hamilton. Show all posts

Sunday, April 23, 2017

My Selected Comments ~ Why Do Jews Exclude Other People?







The discussion to this web article has been closed because it has been thoroughly discussed.




Craig HamiltonSandwich, MAFebruary 13, 2017
Computers are often made up of many things like processors, motherboards, RAM, hard drive, ports, keyboards, etc. The role of each part is divisive, but that doesn’t mean that it is not an essential part of the computer. The same is true in business, especially a chainstore will have a hierarchy of managers, janitors, truck drivers, cashiers etc. However, while their is most certainly a difference of pay between the roles, everybody knows when the cashiers don’t show up because they are so essential. Judaism has a hierarchy as well, such as king, priest, gender roles, and rabbi, etc. What you are getting into here is very dangerous stuff as the Ten Commandments teach not to covet (Exodus 20:14). We have a role. It is what it is. If you want to convert, then do so, but don't try to do kill the religion by teaching an idea similar if not identical to making a rule that everyone should serve as the High Priest at the same time, similar to the way it was with Korech and his company


Craig HamiltonSandwich, MAFebruary 6, 2017
It would surprise me to find that Rabbi Manis Friedman is not good man. Research all the work he has poured into making chabad.org tops. Perhaps, listen to his daily verbal teachings of Tanya. What you have found is perhaps a minor blemish to a man whose work for Hashem is mostly stellar. What were you looking for; a God in Rabbi Manis Friedman, perfect in every way in all of his teachings? Don’t set the bar too high for any mortal to accomplish, and maybe someday someone will cut you some slack over something you have said or done. The world continues in existence because of forgiveness. I encourage you to at least try look past the sins that are between yourself and other people. I believe that if you are able to do this, looking past the sins of others, then Gd will look past all of your sins! Live and let live!


Craig HamiltonSandwichFebruary 1, 2017
... However, if one looks further, the Torah never says rape a non-Jew’s dignity because they are not Jewish. If interpreted properly, observe that the Torah makes provisions for the way non-Jews are to be treated; and these provisions are clearly compassionate, and not even slightly mean (Exodus 22:20, Deuteronomy 10:19). If it isn't compassionate, then it is not Torah.


Craig HamiltonSandwich, MANovember 23, 2016
By definition I have come to see the maxim that, “If it is Jewish, then it has to be good.” What you are going through now is as a tributary, a stream, mixing in with a river of Jewishness. Navigating, these mixing currents is what you are experiencing now. It can lead to frustration, and even temper tantrums, which I believe that is this problem's source.
What I recommend is for you to pick yourself up, dust off any dirt, and get back at facing the problems that may separate you by changing your viewpoint of them to a Jewish viewpoint. For instance, if you have encountered what seems to be wickedness in Judaism, you may be correct. However, Jews also set a place at Passover for the wicked son with the hope that love will win over wickedness.


Craig HamiltonSandwich, MAJanuary 27, 2016
Neither city person nor a member of your Jewish family; but a friend interested in practicing Judaism.Reply
Craig HamiltonSandwich, MAJanuary 24, 2016
My problem was that I felt like you gave a bunch of uses of the word "we," but not the one I was looking for. You listed many other ways, but none of which was to be a friend of the Jews.
I was concerned about inclusion among those with Jewishness. Do you, Shoshana, feel that I, as a non-Jew, should be welcomed as a friend among Jews, even though I have no desire to convert (there is no way I am kicking out my gentile wife. She is essential)? Chabad.org treats me as a friend, and as a fellow chabad.org user, such that I was hoping that we could share that condition - friendship (like many other fellow chabad.org users do).
Craig HamiltonSandwich, MAJanuary 11, 2016
While not being a Jew, I find a tremendous level of inclusion here at chabad.org.
When I first found chabad.org, I long wondered that when Jews wrote, “We,” if “we” meant that Jews were excluding me, and other gentiles.
That “we” word hurt my feelings because I wanted to experience inclusion, especially among those that cherish Torah. How can Torah divide right-minded people if they both love Torah? It is not possible. For example, not even R. Hillel, and R. Shammai, could separate Jew from Jew. Through the Torah, Hashem included both schools of thought, and we found that they were never separate at all.


Craig HamiltonSandwich, MANovember 20, 2015
“There were some awkward moments when our child was exposed to Xmas as celebrated by "our" family and when he realized that his paternal grandma did not keep kosher, but we explained that it was fine for her, as a Christian, to celebrate Xmas and to eat non-kosher.”
I think Hashem loves your Grandma for her ability to eat with you as much as your ability to eat with her, but if either is the case, I think Gd allowed your family to be happy. He granted you happiness because on a smaller part He was impressed with your family’s love for Him Xtianity aside, but on a greater part because the time your family spent together inspired deeds of love, inspiring Him to happy, such that He granted your family happiness. Cheers!


Craig HamiltonSandwich, MAOctober 19, 2015
We need Jewish diplomats to help explain this. Chabad.org does a wonderful job at it. It may seem silly, but many fall flat on their face with misconceptions about the Jews – usually remnants of what they learned as children in non-Jewish households – including myself at times. Peacekeeping is an art form, not merely a role. Priests need diplomacy skill.


Craig HamiltonSandwich, MAOctober 19, 2015
“I think people are misunderstanding roles here… It's a matter of role, not better or worse.”
You are so correct! Depending on our experiences, sometimes we make false assumptions. One misconception I had that really made me mad years ago was a belief that Jewish role-play involved Jews metaphorically thumbing their nose at gentiles. I said a prayer that I didn’t want to be like the other man, those men who get angry and attack Israel – nothing but another villain to the Jews. Couldn’t I at least be something more original? So, I continued my education, a good idea, and Gd has blessed me greatly, especially because I came to love His people, His Jews, and His Torah more deeply. Differently, when anger festers, those angry people may be inadvertently attracting psychopathic followers, monsters eager carry out their will by attempting to destroy the Jews. To heal the world, these problems deserve more than just a quick look over.


Craig HamiltonSandwich, MAOctober 16, 2015
Turning people away, making conversions difficult, and other forms of ways Jews may seem to exclude others is almost certainly destined to continue to backfire on the entire Jewish population. It may not even be correct problems, merely mistaken gentiles, but their reality is that many of them feel that they are getting the cold shoulder. We need to get the real message of Torah out. Rejection because your mother is not special enough is like having a door to a party you want to attend slammed in your face. Remember that! Having the perfect doctrine is meaningless unless it reduces hatred, and fuels peace. My thought is that doing these separatist things makes the combustion fuel that drives the hearts of the enemies of Israel. There has to be a better way.
Craig HamiltonSandwich, MAOctober 14, 2015
Having a large and diverse gene pool are essential for producing robust offspring that will pass their genes down for future generations. Lack of genetic variability is dangerous and should be cause for caring people of all kinds to be concerned. We find these similar ways in humankind toward endangered animals. We protect their endangered habitats, legislating protective laws to try to save them.
Craig HamiltonSandwich, MAJune 27, 2015
Regardless of our status as a Jew or non-Jew; these ideas are comfortable with our soul. Regardless of who invented these things, Jew or non-Jew; they are pleasing to nearly anyone. There is a part in our souls that of nearly all of us have such that these contributions sit well with our souls. We don’t like these things just because they are accredited to the Jews. We like them because our Creator made a spot in our heart for them. Take for instance the invention of controlled fire. Controlled fire probably predates even Abraham, the first Jew. I argue that Gd placed a special part in our souls that intrigued us about fire; making us ponder if we could use fire for a good purpose, such as to sterilize, to cook (there are many reasons), or even bad purposes, such as to torture. Jews and non-Jews see things in nature that spark ideas, such that we try to make them useful to us
Craig HamiltonSandwich, MAAugust 19, 2014
Charcoal colored people can become milky white colored by hiding their color with white makeup. Usually, charcoal colored people report that they are generally treated better if they hide their dark skin in that way. However, of course it may all be in the head. For instance, perhaps without consciousness the charcoal colored people acted differently.
Craig HamiltonSandwich, MADecember 18, 2013
I am not against questioning. I just thought things like saying the Shema twice daily where Rabbinically widely accepted. I am pro-questioning just like you. I wasn't aware that there is much Rabbinical questioning of the Mishnah Torah (I posted one or more comments to chabad.org elsewhere in disagreement with Maimonides, myself). I know many observant Jews "swim" in the Talmud, questiong it, agreeing with some parts, but not others. I am aware that some Rabbi's say that non-Jews have an all accepting approach to Judaism, which is unacceptible, and that conversion mandates a push and pull with Judaism study. As for me personally, I like the idea of being a non-Jew who attempts to observe the 613 laws of Judaism. I know that unlike most religions Judaism can evolve. For instance 2,000 years ago, there where not the "black hat Jews," as that style of a black hat was yet to be fashionable. I would like one these costumes. I like to say the Shema in the morning and before bed.
Craig HamiltonSandwich, MADecember 9, 2013
This banned book list is very small. There were really only a handful of books possible to ban anyway; one of which was the Talmud. The priests that banned the Talmud couldn't even read it. Really, I think you are making this banned book thing into something that it isn't because that is what secular high school teachers do. Aside from the Jews, only the clergy and the nobility in Europe were usually literate, representing fewer than 1% of the population. Most of the others probably didn't even remember the sermons. Consider the 99%; life expectancy was under 30 (for crying out loud)! Rumor and suspicion ruled then in the ways that gossip rules high school hallways. Jews were viewed with suspicion, as Jews do not assimilate. Jews in the Dark Ages were the equivalent of Muslims in America today. People hear a family is Muslim and then some cower in fear and some would probably murder them if they could get away with it by law.
Craig HamiltonSandwich, MADecember 9, 2013
"When the leaders of the church decided that Augustine's positions on various points was correct, the books written by those who disagreed with him were banned."


When is this time period? I have never heard of such a thing. How far reaching was it? Certainly, this did not eliminate Paganism, that was later.


"Only one doctrine was permitted to be published."


What doctrine is this? Does it have a name?


"The King James Bible was a product of the 16th century Church of England and constituted a document of English Protestantism, rather than of Christianity as a whole."


This is what I am trying to communicate to you. Christians are all about telling each other that they aren't Christians. Everyone wants to say that their denomination is the authoritative one. We only get that among converts in Judaism. There is only doubt over converts, and the method for assuring conversion. However, Rabbi's are certain that if one has a Jewish mother, that makes one Jewish.
Craig HamiltonSandwich, MADecember 8, 2013
Hymie confused the Mishneh and the Mishah Torah. R. Judah haNassi wrote the Mishneh in the Dark Ages, which was heavily commented on. That work is called the Talmud. The Talmud permits questioning. That is the style of the Talmud Bavli. Maimonides compiled the Mishneh Torah much later than the Talmud Bavli in the the Middle Ages. The Mishneh Torah is the summary of Talmudic rulings. The Mishnah Torah has been called the "Constitution of Judaism." It is to Judaism what the US Constitution is to Americans. Judaism has only one kind of Jew, like the USA has one kind of American. Christians say stuff like Jehovah's Witnesses, Mormons, Baptists, and Catholics are different faiths, such is the idea of denominations. We never find that in Judaism, except Reform and Orthodox disagree over who is a convert, in the way that the US questions who is a citizen and who is an illegal alien.
Craig HamiltonSandwichDecember 6, 2013
Where did this happen? And, how prevalent was it? From what I know Christianity, as it is now, the practice of Christian faith essentially dates back to the creation of the King James Bible, which occurred at about the same time as the invention of Guttenberg’s printing press. Most lands considered Christianized, where in fact dominated by Pagan (non-Christian) belief, as people were illiterate, and had short life expectancies. St. Augustine was born, 354 “AD.” People would have only heard what Augustine said, unable to read. Who was banned?
Craig HamiltonSandwich, MADecember 3, 2013
Thanks for correcting me Hymie. Avi, my apologies. I incorrectly concluded that Avi said an astronomical number of people are worshipping like Jews. However, the subject of my comment in question is extremely relevant to the subject of "Why Jews Exclude," with respect to Christianity. Though Jews have chuckim, chuckim have precise ways that they can be observed. Different from the possibility of Orthodox chuckim observance, Christianity has thousands of different denominations, each with different doctrine. Differently, with Judaism, there is only difference with respect to the amount or level of observance, while Rabbi's are not in disagreement over what the words actually say. For example, Rabbis can argue laws in Talmud, but no Rabbi has a doubt as to the conclusion of the argument in the Mishnah Torah. Christianity has no doctrine or commentary where conclusions gained widespread agreement. Consequently, for lack of coherence Christianity must be excluded from Judaism.
Craig HamiltonSandwich, MANovember 19, 2013
I must disagree with you in that billions of people worship in the way that Jews do. Clearly, you are including the majority of Christians here, am I correct that you are not including Islam?, and I have to admit that there is a very small minority of Christians that worship like Jews, not messianic Jews, however. Most Jews would probably say Islam is closer to Judaism than Christianity. Isn't it a shame when Jews and Muslims don't get along. However, let's get one thing straight, Christianity, especially the Christian doctrine of the New Testament is too confusing if not impossible for Jews to understand (myself included). Consequently, to the fact that leading Jewish rabbis fail to understand the New Testament, is that rabbis believe it is not Jewish. The New Testament is often understood by non-Jews to mean, "Do good!" However, beyond that I don't believe that there are many conclusions that we as followers of Torah can make that are in agreement with Christianity.
Craig HamiltonSandwich, MANovember 14, 2013
Indeed Tesla did invent many things. However, for their size, Jews have contributed a disproportionally large amount of good things. Though the Scots contributed television, there were hints of Judaism from many things that influence the world. Marx came from a long line of Talmudic scholars. Einstein thought himself as a Jew. Freud developed some of his thinking from Talmudic thought. Research a list of Jewish Nobel laureates and you will see. When researching the number of Nobel laureates by subject; this is what I found, which may be in error: Chemistry 36 Nobel laureates, Economics 29, Literature 13, Peace 9, Physics 51, and Physiology 55. Though the numbers may not be exact, the point is made. Indeed, to belong to the Jewish nation is something very special, and all the while it is not an elite group. One, such as a simple son or daughter, may suffer from chromosome non-disjunction and still be a Jew. The simple Jew is also welcomed to celebrate Passover.
Craig HamiltonSandwich, MAJuly 18, 2013
In order to understand the culture of Jews which can now be quite atheist, we must first understand why these Jews adopted these beliefs. Admittedly, I disagree with atheism myself, but that is beside the point.


Judaism and the revelation of Gd to Moses at Mt. Sinai are, and should be forever ingrained in those that are new to Jewishness. In fact, the new theory is that civilization came about through desire to worship Gd. In square one of Jewishness, one must first accept Torah.


The Jews that believe that to be civilized, one should be an atheist are no doubt the product of ancient religion, and also one that seems prone to mishaps along the way. Some say it is the religionists fault, others say it is secular Judaism that is at fault. However, to know both of these as choices is really the only way to understand us as we are today. Also, those that choose the secular route, often disappear into the abyss of cultures, seemingly with their line wiped from the Book of Life.
Craig HamiltonSandwich, MAApril 9, 2013
While the Torah does permit marriage of one’s first cousin, it does not indicate that this is the most ideal situation, as there are many incest taboos of which we can extrapolate incest is not best. Marriage of closer cousins is also closer to being sinful when we look at the big picture the Torah presents us. Thus, if anything we should be able to extrapolate that when marrying, the further the genetic link between partners, the better, although this is not the only consideration. Jews are a clan, and likewise to maintain a sense of identity, Jews should marry someone who is familiar with Judaism, and at least have a partner that embraces Jewish endeavors.
Craig HamiltonSandwichMarch 13, 2013
To those that are choosing observance; that is beautiful. I encourage everyone who wants to observe to observe, while not trying to fit people into boxes, such as Jew and gentile. I believe that everyone has a certain level of comfortable observance that if they choose to embrace confers a certain level of beauty. As it is such that those proclaiming what it is that they do for the sake of observance, Hashem grants to them greatness due. So, it is not that I seek a Jewish wife, but it is that I seek for folks, including my wife to embrace Judaism, if that is what their heart desires.
Folks know I like religion a lot and I try to encourage those that I know to a level of observance that feels comfortable for their souls, encouraging rather than discouraging. Folks get enough challenges to their religion without intentional discouragement.
Craig HamiltonSandwich, MAApril 17, 2012
If the numbers dead under Nazi Germany is alarming to you, the perhaps research to see how fast the world replenishes 10 million people. As far as world population is concerned 10 million people is but a drop in the bucket.


Craig HamiltonSandwich, MAApril 11, 2012
When selecting a mate, it is generally good to select someone that is familiar with the set of circumstances that you grew up with, such as culture. Why? Because when two people get married it is as two rivers merging. First, there is turbulence. Then, if you actually make it by the turbulence, then a river is more likely to be calm. It is good to keep the turbulence to a minimum, while not promoting incest.
Craig HamiltonSandwich, MAJanuary 23, 2012
I have spent countless hours trying to get Christians to have empathy for those that they say are going to hell. With a friend I even came up with a response to Pascal's Wager. I call it Craig and Byron's Wager. We wager that if Christians personally knew all the people that they say are going to hell, then they would stop being Christian.
Craig HamiltonSandwich, MANovember 12, 2010
There is another audio recording on this website that refutes that everyone carrying the last name Cohen is in fact a Cohen. The evidence suggested is that there are far too many with that last name for it to be legitimate. Cohen is but one family of the Levites, such that it would be highly unlikely that there are more Cohenim that regular Levites. However, among Jews there are far more Cohenim than just regular Levites. Another argument given is that that no Jew possesses an ancestry accurate enough to tell him whose Y chromosome he possesses. No ancestry directly from Aaron is possibly claimable by any Jews. However, there are some ancestries in Christian mythology that claim that their are Cohenim among them. Thus, it may be plausible to suggest that all with the last name Cohen are related. However, it is not plausible to suggest that they are legitimate Cohenim.

Monday, May 11, 2015

Idol or G-d: Is truth discernible?

One man's God is the next man's idol! How profound. Just say that and put the next evangelist that tries to save you in a pickle. It reminds me of a comical skit from The State. Old fashioned man proclaims [license taken], “I believe in the one true G-d,” dramatic pause “And his name is Zoro and he is living in that lake,” which is followed by the old fashioned man humorously whistling at the end of the short clip.

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watch the skit here:  www.youtube.com/watch?v=dpiw-ng5wkQ

I have never heard apologetics from any religion that address this maddening issue, which is that once we establish that there is a G-d, we fall flat on our faces in details, not minor details, but MAJOR DETAILS!, such as what the name of G-d is, but the where, the when, the why, and the how, so I will tell it: The details are up to Gd Himself, not me. However, I have a function too. As a faithful follower of Hashem, my role is to be as His instrument in order that His will may be done. He doesn’t need me to be His instrument, but through His unfathomable ways he has chosen to work through humankind.

Want to know how I came to faith? When I was an atheist at Rutgers, G-d spoke to me and instantaneously I believed. G-d said, "I AM punishing you." There was nothing not to believe about that Voice, and it caused me great joy because I never knew Gd could be capable of retribution, and not only that but that He also cared enough about me enough to speak with me. In my opinion, Hashem chose to speak to me when I was at my lowest because I felt like I had nothing to lose. I would try anything. Had he spoken to me in less dire circumstances, I may have brushed it off without changing. That is how I feel about folks when I tell them about G-d and they roll their eyes or deny that He has spoken with me. Like me in the good times, I expect that they wouldn’t change a thing.

Tuesday, January 20, 2015

Does Gd Love Women as Much as Men or Is He a Bigoted Bastard?

Firstly, I want for women to know Gd loves all of His people!
Hi!  I am a gentile.  Years ago I got really angry at a Rabbi for letting me know that I am Bnei Noach.  It probably was rude, but forgivable.  However, another Jew told me that he could guarantee the Jewish Nobel Laureate Elie Wiesel would never ever act that way, and that helped me feel better.
I once thought similarly like so many women that Jews had placed me in what was essentially in a lower caste.  I thought Jews idealized ideas such as never letting gentile slaves free, feeding people like me things that they found already dead, etc.  However, I didn’t give up my pursuit of Hashem with the Torah as my guide.  From what I found, I can tell women that given enough patience and in depth study, Torah guarantees us the “Thank Gd I am not a woman prayer,” or in my case the “Thank Gd I am not like the other man,” prayer won’t be bothersome.
What I don’t know is how each woman can find peace.  I am not a woman, and even greater; women are not alike.  I don’t claim to know how all men may find peace in Torah either!  Gd created us as individuals, each with something different to offer.  I don’t know how each person may find his or her inner peace from Torah study, but I can say with confidence that Gd loves it when people try to get to know Him better, and that inner peace is findable through unlocking the secrets of Torah.
In study, I too have reached incorrect conclusions.  There is that prayer, “Thank you for not making me like the other man.”  Can anyone empathize with my situation easier now?  Once, I too was angry.  I had misconceptions about how Jews were supposed to act toward gentiles.  Through study I learned that I was wrong about Torah and that G-d never calls for bigotry.  Instead, Jews are called to follow Abraham’s examples of lovingkindness and hospitality, and Moses’ example of compassion for animals.

I, myself, have found happiness as a gentile.  IMHO, Noah is the epitome of the spine of Torah.  The entire world laughed at him, and he had the spine not to assimilate!  God cleansed the world for the sake of one righteous man, Noah.  I won’t look down on him!

Tuesday, January 13, 2015

The Genesis of New Matter and/or Space through Tzimtzum

Imagine a day where we could literally create more space, enlarging our planet so that food shortages and overpopulation are no longer a threat. How, I don't know; but it happened in the creation of the cosmos, and it continues to happen. The universe is expanding. What if we could control how it expands?

How did the matter of the cosmos first arise?  This disproves the Law of Conservation of Mass.  It must have arisen through the creation of new space, energy, and/or matter.   My thinking is that if it arose once, then it should be possible to accomplish the expansion of new space and/or matter again, especially through the actions of humans if we get smart about it.

According to Lurianic Kabbalah, the first hint on how we can accomplish the genesis of new space occurs is in the Book of Genesis. In the Creation Week, G-d tells us that He causes the genesis of creation with “tzimtzum.” Tzimtzum is the Hebrew word for expansion, contraction, and/or separation, which may be how we can expand the universe. What works for Hashem also works for us: But only if we use the holy language. Any scientist seeking understanding should look to the creation account in Genesis. I would say it should be thought of as an inspired "How to" manual.

Thursday, January 8, 2015

Pain or Suffering Problems?



While suffering exists in this age, we must believe Gd is omnipotent. Why then does Gd allow horrid things if He can stop any disease like magic?

To allow disease is not a sign of Gd’s impotence, even if it is a condition that is chronic and/or causing excruciating pain. Just as a rich man may lose everything in seconds, so to can any creature suffer disease. Similarly, as any man may gain a fortune in seconds, so to can we receive speedy recovery from any and every chronic disease.

Hashem desires for us to do His will; that we wrestle to understand His ways. He longs for us to choose Him through hearkening to His call. He desires for us to love Him, all of us, from the most pious king to the lowliest worm, but only of our own accord. While we don’t know why some may suffer; we know justice must prevail, either divine reward or divine punishment, according to our deeds. 


We can’t have faith and believe in the possibility of the incurable!

Maimonides taught that to deny Moshiach’s coming, and subsequently the arrival of a world without suffering, is equivalent to denial of Torah in its entirety. Thus, we are able to derive that in the age of Moshiach, pain and suffering will cease because of our own doing, as then we will be completely occupied with our relationship with G-d; that is when G-d gets His way, and if we love G-d then His way is our ideal.

Rather, than stumbling blocks, the existence of pain and suffering should be motivators for us to help Gd achieve His ultimate goal; peace on earth.


Friday, February 15, 2013

Why Christianity Is Wrong

"Exodus 33:20. And He said, 'You will not be able to see My face, for man shall not see Me and live.'"


Then, why do people believe that Jesus is God?   Christianity is so absurd.  By definition in the 10 commandments, if you believe something that is an earthen vessal, even a human is a Gd, then that is idolatry.

The same is true with me.  I might claim to be a Messiah, but I am certainly not a God.  God is in me as he is in everthing in this creation, permeating it in conceiled omnipresence, as we can't see Gd.  Please don't worship me.  And, it is true that I believe Gd has spoken to me.  God's words to me where, "I am punishing you."  So, I said, "Why are you punishing me?"  And, Gd's reply was, "I get everyone sooner or later."  And, yet I do know that this qualifies as a hallucination, yet I trust that it was real and Gd spoke to me.

Monday, February 4, 2013

Things I’d Like to Do by Craig Hamilton the Christ


 

1.       Take Alex to see his Grandparents in North Carolina, and his Great Grandmother, Gram in Albany more often.

2.       Eat a lot of sushi.

3.       Sing a lot of karaoke.

4.       Spend time with my family.

5.       Go with relatives to Lake George.

6.       Eat a lot of olives from the olive bar.

7.       Play competitively at MTG a card game.

8.       Have a steady job.

9.       Lose some weight.

10.   Maybe play in a band.

11.   Go to Scotland & Ireland.

12.   Be a prolific blog author.

13.   Stay on Cape Cod.

14.   Go to Pawsox and Cape League Games (Go Bourne Braves!)

15.  Have some extra money.

Monday, January 21, 2013

6th Craig: Of Me and Edom - A Comment Made to Chabad.org on Why Do Rabbis Discourage Conversions? by Aaron Moss

I talked to a very nice laid back Rabbi. I informed him that my ancestry goes back to Edom, as in the Middle Ages Jews referred to the kings of these times as Edom. He was nice and didn’t turn me away. We both agreed that Edom did have righteous men. Without correction I mentioned that the names of people in Torah are like chemical formulas for what these people are like and Zerah is listed among Edom as a chief, while Zerah is also a son of Judah by Tamar. Thus, Zerah is righteous because, "for all your people are righteous (Sanhedrin)." Another example of an Edomite mentioned both as being of Edom and of Israel is Jeush. I would think that the predicted destruction of Edom in the prophets means that those righteous in Edom will either convert (to Judaism) or be slayed.
Craig Hamilton
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Friday, January 4, 2013

Collected Comments: Why Is Conversion to Judaism So Hard? (Probably, my last update)

Article Written By Tzvi Freeman at chabad.org
http://www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/3002/jewish/Why-Is-Conversion-to-Judaism-So-Hard.htm


My Last Comment First:
in response to Rabbi Aryeh Moshen:

Thank you Rabbi Aryeh Moshen. I appreciate your care in contacting me. And, the bridge between that "Rock and a hard place," may be closer than we could ever realize, just as the full redemption could occur at any minute. L'chaim!
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Re: Rabbi Aryeh Moshen I don’t believe The Book of Ezra applies to my situationTo Rabbi Aryeh Moshen, your December 4, 2012 comment bothers me that you could be so callous to say I must send away my wife to be a Jew. She is more than just a wife to me. She has also been a lifetime companion of mine. She was an acquaintance of mine since I was in 4th grade. Later, we became friends while playing in the same band together. Despite her Christianity, she has stopped attending church, which is a step in the right direction. She is not only a wife to me, but I have considered her to be my best friend for roughly 15yrs. She has never dated any other male; has never even romantically kissed anyone but me. This is not the situation of “The Book of Ezra.” So yes, in my youth I attended a Christian church. However, my dad was clear to me that he did not believe Jesus is his deity that he worships. I don’t know if my mom believes Jesus is her deity either. I think for my mom, to her virtue, Church is merely a way to plug into the community.
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Re: Rabbi Aryeh Moshen"I've also heard of Batey Din who do not want to convert couples unless all their children, including adult children are on-board."
Similarly, I totally agree because at first my parents worked against me in my religious pursuits. For example, my mom would hide or throw out my precious books that I used for study. I pay rent to my parents, and my dad threatened to raise my rent beyond what I could afford if I continued my Torah study. Sure, we could have moved. However, this happens to be the property of choice for me, and my family. My mom has changed, in tears about how proud she was for me to stick to my study path, and for me a life of Torah study is bringing together my family instead of breaking it apart.

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There is so much Torah to study without ever converting. The way I see it is that I don’t have to be a Jew to study or contribute. Why not opt in to observe mitzvos, even mitzvos I am not required observe as a son of Noah? My personal feeling is that if deeds are healthy for Jews, then they are probably healthy for me. I have studied Chumash, Daily Halachah, Psalms, and Tanya, with plans for others at chabad.org for several years now. I have no need to convert to be blessed by Jews. I hope that this generation will find ways to make peace with other nations of the world - count me in for that one! Jews studying side by side with non-Jews in study halls has the potential to heal hate.
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Re: Rabbi Aryeh MoshenI respect that answer ~ Thanks! I guessed that I was committing some sort of sin, but I had no clue as to what it was, or if I could get a different response as to whether or not it was fixable.
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Why Turn Away? Why not welcome?Years ago, when a Rabbi denied me access to show reverence to the Torah, it made me feel bad. I would think that if what the Rabbi had to offer was so good, then he would welcome me and show me what he has to offer rather than turn me away. Traditionally, folks invite people by welcoming them, not by turning them away.
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Re: Rabbi Aryeh MoshenThanks for the offer. I don’t know what I could give in return. I don’t believe it is right to frequent a Synagogue when I often have less than a dollar my account many times a year, and year after year. I trust in Hashem, not in money, but it is okay to have and spend money.
A Jewish older friend of mine loved would say, “No freebies.”
Since my marriage, there has never been a day that I have been without food, shelter, or clothing. Quite contrarily, I’ve been told that my family lives like millionaires. Whenever one door closes, another opens, may it be a blessing. Hashem, Himself, has taught me to trust Him fully, and that solving all our problems is mystically within the reach of our grasp. There is nothing to great to ask for.
Approach Him with an open mind, the mind of a child. Be careful not to be too bold in His eyes.
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Sad Judaism or Happy JewishnessThere is some sadness in my study of Judaism, especially practice of Judaism without a Jewish soul. What could one see more demoralizing? Maybe, I can flip the situation around, and use Torah to bring Light. 
The story of finding individuality is a lesson Abraham taught. 
It is as if there is a special mitzvah, a Torah mitzvah to be a unique individual, and/or another mitzvah to be a part of a greater group, such as a clan or a nation, such as the Jews. 
I identify with many things Jewish in Torah, and perhaps, this is why Gd loves me. I identify with Abraham’s individuality, possibly because I have opted to keep Judaism in my life. Torah study of Abraham, is that of a Jew who took the courage to choose to a different side, monotheism. If I visited Abraham’s tent, he would have welcomed me, as Chabad welcomes folks.
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Re: Rabbi Aryeh Moshen - Dear Rabbi, I am confused.Correct me if I am wrong, but elsewhere on this site, it says that for potential converts it is essential to create a natural push and pull with Judaism.
How is permission to whine or to make things difficult not a part of creating a genuine Jewish push and pull?
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"Why Is Conversion to Judaism So Hard?"Ideally, potential converts should demonstrate a love for Judaism first, and then to have a matchmaker pair them in marriage, if they desire to convert. This is entirely different to meeting someone at a crowed bar where drugs, hormones, and chemistry inebriate judgments that many young adults hold onto so dearly as permanent truth but do not stand time’s test.
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Re: Rabbi Moshen 2b - continuedFrom a chabad.org email on July 27, 2015 - “Courageous, G dfearing, truthful, and money-hating. - Torah’s requirements for a judge, Exodus 18:21"

Why is there a financial requirement for those that are to become a Jew, but not a financial requirement for those that are born Jewish? Where do you find evidence to support that claim in Torah? As I proved, judges are supposed to loath money, instead of focusing on it and demanding it as a centrality! How is that not hypocritical to prevent people from converting because of financial hardship?
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Last Disaster? - Rabbi Moshen - Let's Hope So.Rabbi Aryeh Moshen, I hope you are right. The situation with Iran has me quite worried about WWIII. I think President Obama has done a great job because war has not broken out. He is showing Iran the grace of forgiveness through freedom of speech, which IMHO has the healing power of catharsis. Rather than allowing Iran nuclear tech, we should be helping Iran develop renewable energy instead. That way we could know because if Iran chooses nuclear tech over renewable tech, that would be intolerable. Tolerating Iran's anti-Israel and anti-USA speech is not a sign of weakness. Are you of the opinion that prophecy Ezekiel 38:16 has already been fulfilled? Looking at another popular Jewish website I see that this verse prophesies that "Before the time of the mashiach, there shall be war and suffering" - Let's hope Mashiach is here, and the time for suffering and war is expiring into a thing of the past.
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Re: Rabbi MoshenWhat is "the Last Disaster?" Rabbi Moshen, are you referring to Ezekiel 38:16, an event yet to occur?

Also, with regard to this "Pledge of Allegiance" - it seems too inward. Recently I watched a video by Rabbi Aaron L. Raskin that suggests the entire reason for the Holocaust was that Jews were turned inwards by not focusing on teaching the nations of the world their inherent individual beauty, in addition to teaching the inherent beauty of the Jewish nation. Isn't it the very mission of the Baal Shem Tov, the founder of Hasidic Judaism, to bring the Light of Torah to the world, instead of focusing inward?
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I have a happy marriage with a non-Jew. So, that is a better reason why I should not convert. I would never leave her, especially in the name of religion.----Sorry!Rabbi Aryeh Moshen I owe you an apology. Thanks for setting me straight. I was under the wrong impression about the Mishneh. I thought that because it is canon, and the core of the Talmud, that all of it is both followed and academic. It amazes me how much there is to learn.
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Deception AgainIn the light of the following, Rabbi Aryeh Moshen does appear to be deceptive.
Mishnah Bikkurim 1:5
A. Rabbi Eliezer b. Jacob says, “A woman who is the daughter of proselytes may not marry a priest”
B. unless her mother was an Israelite.”
D. [and holds] even to the tenth generation

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"But if the ger does accept, then he or she is reborn as an eternal Jew, the same as any one of us who was born into the covenant. "

Dear Rabbi, I do believe that this article may be somewhat deceptive. The Talmud talks of 10 castes. Convert is one of those castes. However, the convert caste is lower than the Israelite caste. I would have a difficult time being a convert for that reason. Convert? Convert to what; being a permanently lesser caste? That sounds like a racial distinction to me more than what you are trying to make it out to be.
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Bad Monday Syndrome and Re: SimonI believe part of the reason so many people claim to have horrible Mondays is because they have essentially worked 7 day weeks. That is, even on their day off, they generally blow all their money on drugs, and feel like crud on Monday. The solution to this IMHO is to encourage everyone to rest on Shabbat. I see no reason to encourage people not to observe Shabbat with respect to lights, for example. I usually go to bed before Sundown most nights of the year due to my medication regiment. However, IMHO that is just Hashem providing me a way to rest my eyes, such that they don't get too much stress, and that I will have good vision for hopefully a long time. So, again, I don't see what is with encouraging virtually anyone to observe Shabbat, especially imperfectly. Is it to damage the eyes of goys through imperfect observance? That just doesn't make any sense. I am just using this as an instance to prove my point.
What is wrong with keeping a day of rest?"In fact, you are supposed to avoid keeping it perfectly until you have gone in the mikveh."
That quoted statement to me seems absurd. I think that it is only reasonable to encourage folks to have a days rest. I know I don't want to be a slave driver asking people to work 7 day weeks. How anyone could suggest such a thing is deplorable. 
I also have no desire to convert to Judaism, only to observe the commandments that apply to Jews with the aim of becoming priestly, as Torah says that the Jews are to be a "nation of priests." What I am not sure about is whether or not Judaism is serious about turning away potential converts, not whether potential converts are serious about converting to Judaism. I think the answer in both instances is no. Judaism has yet to come up with a way to determine the sincerity of one's heart, and it should not pretend that it has. 

I Guess Mother Earth Can Create A Jew.

Chabad.org created flame that changes people. At this website, I gain warmth study, as a person. Study of Light is transforming knowledge. When one can stumble across various a pattern associable with Light in one’s own life that leads one to Orthodox Judaism as a truth, truth from the perspective of a Jew, then it is that a superior being, mother Earth, may attempt to create a man how She sees fit with respect to Jewishness, guiding his path down roads of transformation. It is also especially that the Light is put on the internet, some will find it, and pursue it, in the way bugs are attracted to a flame at Night. And, chabad.org will have an impact on some of those human bugs, such that they may grow to have a Jewish soul, actual transformation. There have been countless ways that I’ve been pulled toward Torah, especially the Light of Torah, while none evangelized. If one asked me who my mother was, I would have to say I was mothered by Earth, as Earth is feminine.

Craig Hamilton
Sandwich


Rabbi Aryeh Moshen

Another thing that strikes me is that I accept the Talmud, not as a Gd, but as a debate that is open to questioning, and so far as I understand it that is all that Talmud itself claims to be. That is, Talmud is a source of chabad, but that it is open to questioning, and that new cases still present themselves, and that not every case in Talmud was capable of being solved. Thus, with respect to this following line: "you also must accept the Talmud and commentaries that say that a child born of a non-Jewish mother is a non-Jew." while I do accept Talmud, I also accept that it is questionable by nature, which therefore seems to invalidate the comment in the quotations relative to this post.

Craig Hamilton
MA


Dear Rabbi Aryeh Moshen,

Thanks for the attention but I fully fail to receive how this is relative to me, especially as a male, “The Book of Ezra is quite explicit that the foreign wives AND THEIR CHILDREN were sent away.” My wife is not Jewish to her knowledge, and neither am I. What I am talking about is paternal ascent to having an affinity for observance of Torah with respect to me. Rabbi, my mom hid my Jewish books. Rabbi, my mom taught me, possibly by accident, that I should commit idolatry. I don't see how maternal ascent is possible in my instance.

Craig Hamilton
MA


Dear Rabbi, Thank you for taking the time to discuss this with me, and to have the courage to proclaim desolate words, “I'm sorry,” for when I talk with my wife, she said the following the other day about my mom: “I wish I could just say to your mother, ‘Have you met someone? His name is Craig. You have no clue in the slightest who he is, or what he is like, but he is your son.’”Sincerely,

Craig Hamilton
Sandwich


Jewish Moms or Jewish Culture

One thing that is striking about Judaism is that one is required to have a Jewish mother, but in the Torah, and books of Kings, etc, there is almost no discussion in the sacred texts that would lead one to conclude the importance of having a Jewish mother. Additionally, where the sperm is the smaller gamete than the egg, and that the division of labor starts there, with the woman playing the far greater role of raising these patriachs though going unmentioned; it leads me to think that it is a more reasonable conclusion that one's Jewishness is very much a product of his or her culture, especially his or her paternal culture, rather than the maternal upbringing.

Craig Hamilton
MA


Jewish Moms or Jewish Culture

One thing that is striking about Judaism is that one is required to have a Jewish mother, but in the Torah, and books of Kings, etc, there is almost no discussion in the sacred texts that would lead one to conclude the importance of having a Jewish mother. Additionally, where the sperm is the smaller gamete than the egg, and that the division of labor starts there, with the woman playing the far greater role of raising these patriachs though going unmentioned; it leads me to think that it is a more reasonable conclusion that one's Jewishness is very much a product of his or her culture, especially his or her paternal culture, rather than the maternal upbringing.

Craig Hamilton
MA


Matrilineal Descent

While I am fairly sure that my mom is not Jewish, there is good reason to believe that matrilineal ascent to Jewishness is at least usually correct. The reason for this is that biologically we determine the male of a species versus the female of a species by the level of work put in for the offspring. For example, that the sperm, the male gamete is smaller than the egg is only the beginning of the differences in how women spend more effort raising children. While my mom raised me, I did not like her, but I liked my father and wanted to emulate him. Thus, in my case it was as my father played far more of a role in educating me than my mom. I stopped listening to the weird things my mom would say by 9th grade. My dad however explained a good portion of the universe to me through science. However, that was not enough for my dad was never able to impart the Light. Yet, Gd spoke to me and did, and that is what attracted me to chabad.org

Craig Hamilton
Sandwich, MA


Why would anyone want to convert?

As the number of laws given in the Torah increases, the average life expectancy of a patriarch goes down. And, before you get on your high horse and knock the age of people like Methusaleh or Serug as being mystical or something like that, understand that there are people that today live to be the ages of the patriarchs in the Bible and especially how absurd this would probably seem to someone living in the Dark Ages whose life expectancy was only 25. That the ages we attain in modernity are possible is yet another example (like the technological revolution) that we are sampling the soup prior to the age of Mosiach. In fact, I read the other day that a baby born today has a 50% chance of living to be 100yrs old. That is to the person in the Middle/Dark ages the ages we attain now would have seemed as mystical to them as the ages given when reading the Bible.

Craig Hamilton
Sandwich, MA


Elite Earthworms

Some people say that converts blow away Jews by birth in observance. That is a horrible tone. However, the Talmud does say, “How much more sincere the heart of the convert?” A convert should feel connected to the Jewish people, not better. Also, converts should expect some exclusion because most Jews are cousins. We tend to be more altruistic toward people with similar genetics. Read the Richard Dawkins book The Selfish Gene. Oppression would give you a whole new perspective. Moses was the most oppressed prophet, and that helped him to be compassionate even toward animals. If you believe Jews are elite, or that converts are better, you should compare your ideas to that of the Baal Shem Tov. He taught humans were no greater than worms. Biology tells us that our ancient ancestors were worms. Jewishness is not about belonging to an elite group. Read Habakkuk 2:4, and see how puffed up some of these commentators are. How foolish is an idea of elite earthworms?

Craig Hamilton
Sandwich, MA


What's with downplaying key Democrats?

What good is a brain without any muscle? Jews need both. I agree that there is no smart choice in politics, but yet some really smart people have been Democrats, and in fact this makes joining the Democratic Party a good idea. Bill Clinton's IQ is over 160. People here are arguing as if Bill Clinton's intelligence or even still others that the condition of his heart is related to the difficulty his conversion to the Democratic Party. Jewishness shouldn't be an issue of brains, soul, or muscle, but a combination of these things. I hate to speak ill of Stephen Hawking, but for all his supposed brains he has not much when he contradicts himself and certainly he could certainly use some muscle.

Craig Hamilton
Sandwich, MA


Religious Vote

Becoming Jewish should be like voter registration, quick and easy. I happen to be a Democrat. It wouldn't make me a better, more loyal, or more dedicated Democrat if the law made it harder to become a Democrat. The only thing that would happen is that there would be fewer Democrats, since it would be especially hard to register to this party. You probably even lose pro Jewish people this way. In my opinion, it just creates more confusion when people aren't able to join the political party or religion of their choice easily. Every time a Rabbi tells me that I am not a Jew, I feel as if I, a Democrat, were handed the Republican primary ticket, and denied my proper chance to vote in the primary of my choice.

Craig Hamilton
Sandwich, MA


Re: Steve

I disagree that the idea of quasi has to become one thing or another and that it is the anti-thesis of Torah. The world is ripe with quasi-Jews looking for a place to socialize. This is partly due to how popular the Tanach is and literacy. Consider how many people support Israel and how unpopular Christian fundamentalism is in the highly educated North East. Many people not classified as Jews are hungry for a religion that is both about a Jewish G-d and contains the ethic of the Law of Moses. I believe if such a religion were started, then it could last the test of time even if members never officially converted to Judaism because in my experience it is not the Tanach holding people back, but it is Jewish culture that seems a little scary.

Craig Hamilton
Sandwich, MA


Joachim

1. That's interesting that you deny quasi, as if G-d never created a hermaphrodite or something similar. Why can't quasi be a level? For me, quasi or shades of grey is how I see most things. Take for instance chemicals in chemistry, all have a purity rating.
2. Personally, it’s not fun study for me to study as Bnei Noach, as if I should find joy knowing that as a gentile I need not be set free from slavery by the Torah. If that's not bigotry I don't know what is! On the other hand, I don't believe immersing in the mikvah will help me become a more ethical person. Yet, I study Judaism because there is so much good ethics! I hope not to throw out the baby with the bathwater.

Craig Hamilton
Sandwich, MA


Re: Hanalah

Righteous gentile doesn't sit well with me. I love the Torah for the most part, but parts of it don't sit well with me. To me this makes me quasi-Jewish because I never sealed the deal and I have no plan to.
One thing that doesn't sit well with me is that the Torah is bigoted to gentiles. For example, there is the Law to feed or sell something that dies of itself to a gentile. To me it wouldn't make any sense for me to eat that, as I keep kosher as much as possible. It does not bother me that this I do this of my own will and that it is not something that G-d ordained. I am not alone either; masses of people think like me, but don't use the word. For example, many people would support humane slaughter of meat if they knew that is part of what kosher means.

Craig Hamilton
Sandwich, MA


Quasi-Jewish Is Not a Lie

All the indicators say that there is such a thing as quasi-Jewish, only the Orthodox minority denominations have the audacity to say quasi-Jewish is a lie. Gentiles commonly circumcise their young, and perform other Jewish mitzvahs. The 613 and the rabbinical commands are kosher for anyone, and it is hardly a tragedy if a gentile doesn’t properly perform a Jewish mitzvah. In the melting pot of America, Judaism is no longer as separate from other nations as it has been. Jews that don’t recognize “quasi-Jewish (more than Noah tzedeks)” are hijacking Judaism. Of course Jewish and Jewishness can exist as they have, but quasi-Jewish should be accepted for those people that feel a strong association with the Jewish tribe, but haven't been in the mikvah.

Craig Hamilton
Sandwich, MA


Israel: Orthodox and Reform

What is Orthodox, but taking religion and history more seriously than another denomination? Every Jew should study Orthodox Judaism. In the manner of study, I believe Orthodox Judaism is better, but I don't believe it is practical that a minority of Jews should be able claim monopoly on conversion. This hypocrisy becomes apparent in the Law of Return for Israeli citizenship that accepts Reform conversions, as Orthodox Jews deny them at the synagogue. Good enough to be Israeli, but not good enough to be Orthodox is a contradiction. It follows that Israeli law is for practice, but Orthodox law is for study.

Craig Hamilton
Sandwich


Ger vs. Bnei Isreal an "Ism" unto Itself

Trying to ascertain the Talmudic castes: whether or not someone is a goi, a ger, bnei Israel, or a Cohen is an "Ism" unto itself. I imagine many mistakes are made. It would make more sense to simply answer the question, "Who is a Jew?" with "One that says they are a Jew." That is the position Felix Posen took at Jpost.com (Aug 13, 2009). So much time is spent on, "Who is a Jew?" a matter of birth rather than ethic. I would suggest that if more time was spent on ethic, Bnei Noach would walk out the door, and no mistakes would be made ascertaining, "Who is a Jew?"

Craig Hamilton
Sandwich